What Others' Say...
“After years of applying these ideas with youth and their parents, I can say that this is powerful medicine for the soul. These ideas change hearts, heal deep wounds, and bring parents and children together.”
~ Mike Merchant, CEO, Anasazi Foundation (hosts for Brat Camp, Family Camp)
“I had no more answers. My daughter and I had lost the ability to communicate. The air around us was filled with demands. Her demands were vocal, material, and selfish. My demands were silent and resentful…. After attending the Arbinger Seminar, I slowly began to recognize how my efforts to change my daughter’s behaviour only made the problem between us worse. It is strange looking back now, how what I thought was love and concern was only control and pressure that she felt she needed to defend herself against.”
~ Mother
“The simplicity of Arbingers work is a vehicle for a deep philosophy to positive relationships, starting at the family, reaching out to the larger community and relevant to all creeds and cultures.”
~ Rosalind Portman co-founder of The Nurturing Programme - Family Links UK
“I considered my husband too slow, too forgetful, and not proactive enough. It seemed I was running our lives single-handedly. I was exhausted, frustrated, and resentful…. In my mind, changing my circumstances equaled changing my husband. Yet all my efforts to fix him not only met with zero results, they felt wrong. After the seminar, my eyes and heart were opened. I realized that my perception of my husband is distorted when my heart is of steel. But when my heart is right I see clearly: a consistently compassionate man with a keen, broad mind and a real sensitivity to others and to life. What a difference.”
~ Spouse